Uzbeki thanks a ton for responding brother, I appreciate that. I've never met a server admin before who seemed to genuinely care like that.
Bad news: I couldn't remember those details you asked about
Good news: After hours and hours of looking through vids I got unbelievably lucky and stumbled upon
my winner It's a mage named Rethen, and that was his "farewell" video (with said Natasha Farrow song at the end) in spite of his being on the armory, listed as active.
It's been so many years since I played, apparently many of my memories of my old fav vids got jumbled. He's not in the gear I thought he was in, and the mind control thing was a confusion on my part as well.
I forgot the best part of the video: the "Elwyn Forest Doomsquad" lol!!
Sorry for the "false alarm" with this post. I didn't think I'd ever find it by looking through the vids.